4.7Common tones are your friends
Compare C and Am:
C:
C E G
Am:
A C E
Shared notes:
C, E
Compare C and F:
C:
C E G
F:
F A C
Shared note:
C
Compare F and Dm:
F:
F A C
Dm:
D F A
Shared notes:
F, A
This gives you a practical rule:
When moving to the next chord, keep common tones where they are whenever practical.
Then move the other notes by the smallest possible distance.